The Massachusetts Coalition Against Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence

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Men’s Community Action
Five Project Ideas for Engaging Men

Shifting Social Norms – Men and Boys Becoming Visible Allies

The projects described in this guide demonstrate the variety of activities taking place today in communities across Massachusetts, led primarily by the rape crisis centers and domestic violence member organizations of Jane Doe Inc.

Men are already helping with fundraising, governance and awareness activities, and of course, promoting safety in their private relationships. The new steps we are taking are larger public and visible steps. Social norms lead the way as to what is right and proper behavior and as to what misbehavior we tolerate. Men taking public steps has a direct impact on social norms change.

It is our hope that you will find inspiration from these projects and repeat one or more of them – or create one of your own – this coming year. These examples can help with a starting place or provide new ideas for working with men and boys in your community to help prevent sexual assault and domestic violence.

The key guiding principle of JDI’s White Ribbon Day Campaign in Massachusetts is to build a visible and public male voice in the movement to create a world free of abuse. Many of us, perhaps most men and boys, already do help in private ways. We may know how to be respectful in our relationships. We may care unconditionally for our children. We may know how to listen respectfully in conversation. We may also deeply value collaboration, and we may be determined to support our partners in their career and work. We may already provide financial support to sexual assault and domestic violence programs.

The need for more public activities and visible celebrations of men’s and boy’s commitment and leadership is a vital next step. We believe it is vitally important that men and male-identified individuals make these values visible to our friends, colleagues and neighbors. By doing so, we can help change the social norms of our community that determine what behavior is acceptable and what is not. Through public celebration, we can promote the aspects of male culture that encourage and generate peaceful and healthy relationships. By taking action, we can contribute to the primary prevention of sexual assault, domestic violence and violence against women.

So get ready to roll up your sleeves and make a difference. Feel free to contact us with your ideas and questions. We look forward to hearing about your successes.

DOWNLOADABLE SAMPLE PROJECTS

Fundraising Walk

School Assembly

Parade Float

Mothers Day Pledge Signature Ad

Supply Drive

Suggested Web References


Acknowledgements
We want to thank the activists and organizers in Massachusetts and across the country and internationally for their work on fostering men’s engagement.
This document’s development was supported by the Rape Prevention Education Grant #VF1CE001105-01, from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention through the Massachusetts Department of Public Health. Points of view in this document are those of the authors and do not necessarily represent the official position or policies of the Massachusetts Department of Public Health or the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

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