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Sheila's Story* from The Network/La Red.

Sheila, a 50 year-old transgender woman of color was experiencing harassment and stalking from her abusive ex-partner. Sheila, a lesbian, who had been with her partner for 7 years, was in the relationship for 4 years before she started transitioning.

She called The Network/La Red seeking support around filing for a restraining order.  During our initial conversations Sheila disclosed experiencing physical, emotional, sexual and identity abuse as well as harassment and stalking after breaking off the relationship.

She shared that “My partner had always been a bit jealous and controlling, but that got worse as I started to transition.” Sheila left her partner  after a fight in which her partner had strangled her.

TNLR  helped Sheila connect to a LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer) Domestic Violence attorney who would help her with the restraining order process.

At the hearing, Sheila was denied the restraining order. The judge told her that she was too big to be afraid of anyone. Sheila has not been able to get an appeal approved and continues to experience harassment and stalking from her ex-partner.

 *This story is a composite meant to reveal a survivor's journey while also respecting privacy. 

 

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Pets, Prevention, and Victims' Rights on Agenda: Sexual and domestic violence advocates urge action to save lives

(BOSTON, MA – TODAY) Maureen Gallagher, Policy Director, of Jane Doe Inc., the Massachusetts Coalition Against Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence, will be on Beacon Hill today to urge the Massachusetts Legislature to take immediate action on three proposed statutes that singly and collectively would provide essential support and safety for victims of sexual and domestic violence.

1) An Act Relative to Strangulation and Suffocation; Sponsor: Rep. Brian Dempsey
The proposed legislation would create a new statute which defines strangulation and suffocation and assigns criminal justice consequences that are more in line with the seriousness of this crime than the current option of a misdemeanor charge of assault and battery. Strangulation is a serious tactic that is used by sexual and domestic violence perpetrators to overpower and immobilize victims—an ultimate act of power exerted by controlling the victims ability to breathe. In fact, strangulation has been identified as a high risk factor for domestic violence homicide.

Click here to read full testimony.

2) An Act Relative to Domestic Violence and Animals; Sponsor: Senator Katherine Clark
The link between animal cruelty and human violence is well documented. This legislation, along with sufficient funding for domestic violence services and pet shelter resources, will provide an added tool for individuals who are trying to escape an abusive situation but have the care of family pets to address.

Click here to read full testimony.

3) An Act to Protect & Enhance the Rights of Child & Adult Victims and Witnesses of Crime (Senate Bill 640). JDI supports this legislation to ensure that the court system is accessible to victims and witnesses who are non-English speaking or have disabilities and to families of victims in unsolved homicides.

Click here to read full testimony.

Jane Doe Inc. is the statewide advocacy and social justice coalition of 60 community-based sexual and domestic violence organizations in Massachusetts. Together with its membership, JDI is making our communities safer today and for future generations.

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