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Sheila's Story* from The Network/La Red.

Sheila, a 50 year-old transgender woman of color was experiencing harassment and stalking from her abusive ex-partner. Sheila, a lesbian, who had been with her partner for 7 years, was in the relationship for 4 years before she started transitioning.

She called The Network/La Red seeking support around filing for a restraining order.  During our initial conversations Sheila disclosed experiencing physical, emotional, sexual and identity abuse as well as harassment and stalking after breaking off the relationship.

She shared that “My partner had always been a bit jealous and controlling, but that got worse as I started to transition.” Sheila left her partner  after a fight in which her partner had strangled her.

TNLR  helped Sheila connect to a LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer) Domestic Violence attorney who would help her with the restraining order process.

At the hearing, Sheila was denied the restraining order. The judge told her that she was too big to be afraid of anyone. Sheila has not been able to get an appeal approved and continues to experience harassment and stalking from her ex-partner.

 *This story is a composite meant to reveal a survivor's journey while also respecting privacy. 

 

Economic Advocacy Resources

Check out these state and national resources to learn more about the issue and where to find help for victims and survivors of sexual and domestic violence and economic abuse.  You can also talk to your local sexual or domestic violence program for more information.

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"JDI provides leadership in making clear that we’re all in the same struggle for peace and gender equality. Together we must speak out against violence and use compassion to show strength." ~ Gunner Scott, Executive Director, Massachusetts Transgender Political Coalition

Economic Empowerment is a Social Justice Issue

Living a life with dignity means having the freedom to make decisions about one's own life.  It's society's responsibility to promote and protect these human rights.  When people can make these decisions free of coercion and violence, they can participate more fully and equally in society.  A person's economic situation and choices are closely tied to issues such as gender and racial disparities, poverty and discrimination in the economic sphere.  For victims and survivors of sexual and domestic violence, their freedoms can be limited both by their current economic circumstances as well as by the abuse and its impact.  We cannot address or hope to help victims and survivors achieve safety without also considering their individual economic needs and broader issues of economic justice.

Economic challenges ranging from credit, debt, and foreclosure to job security, housing costs, educational opportunities, property ownership, and medical expenses are often compounded for victims and survivors of sexual and domestic violence.  Their financial situation might determine what kind of access they have to a variety of services and options. The abuse may have a financial impact such as when victims incur expenses if they decide to move out of their neighborhood, drop out of school or need to stop working.

In terms of sexual violence specifically, studies also show that living without housing, a stable income, employment, or steady education may increase a person’s risk for sexual victimization.

Domestic violence might involve finances being used as a tool of power and control such as when a batterer restricts a victim's access to the family’s finances or controls the victim's entire paycheck.  This is often referred to as economic abuse.  One study showed that economic abuse is not well understood or recognized:

  • 74% of Americans personally know someone who is or has been abused.
  • Approximately 6 out of 10 Americans strongly agree that the lack of money and a steady income is often a challenge faced by a survivor of domestic violence when leaving her/his abuser.
  • Yet, 75% Americans also fail to connect domestic violence with economic abuse.

In the recent Domestic Violence Non-Residential Services and Supports Study, survivors identified a need for additional help in achieving and maintaining economic independence and empowerment. These needs ranged from transitional and long-term housing to job training, employment, and other financial supports for basic needs. In fact, 50.9% of survivors reported being unable to pay their bills or having trouble paying regular bills and 44.7% of survivors reported their current financial situation as “much worse” or “worse” than two years ago.

Helping victims and survivors of sexual and domestic abuse achieve financial security is a key component of helping them live a life without fear and violence.  JDI's Economic Empowerment work expands the capacity of our member programs to advance the financial goals of victims and survivors wherever they may fall on the spectrum.   By working on many levels, we can invest in a range opportunities to support the autonomy of survivors and promote economic justice.

  • Economic Abuse - Learn what it is and where can you turn for help.
  • Economic Advocacy- Read about the exciting work at Jane Doe Inc. to address these issues.

 


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