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Stories of Hope: The Network/La Red

Sheila's Story* from The Network/La Red.

Sheila, a 50 year-old transgender woman of color was experiencing harassment and stalking from her abusive ex-partner. Sheila, a lesbian, who had been with her partner for 7 years, was in the relationship for 4 years before she started transitioning.

She called The Network/La Red seeking support around filing for a restraining order.  During our initial conversations Sheila disclosed experiencing physical, emotional, sexual and identity abuse as well as harassment and stalking after breaking off the relationship.

She shared that “My partner had always been a bit jealous and controlling, but that got worse as I started to transition.” Sheila left her partner  after a fight in which her partner had strangled her.

TNLR  helped Sheila connect to a LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer) Domestic Violence attorney who would help her with the restraining order process.

At the hearing, Sheila was denied the restraining order. The judge told her that she was too big to be afraid of anyone. Sheila has not been able to get an appeal approved and continues to experience harassment and stalking from her ex-partner.

 *This story is a composite meant to reveal a survivor's journey while also respecting privacy. 

 

2011 Data Staggering: But Hope Prevails

Massachusetts was a participant in three national studies in 2011.  These three independent reports singularly and collectively validate the effectiveness of sexual and domestic violence services. The Commonwealth should feel quite confident that public as well as private funds are well spent. We are very proud to share this evidence that our members are saving and changing lives and making a difference every day.  Read more...

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"Educating our communities and elected officials about the needs of survivors in our local cities and towns requires year round focus. JDI is our pathway to informing and influencing the state and national agenda to end sexual and domestic violence." ~ Karen Cavanaugh, JDI board member and Executive Director of Womanshelter/Companeras, pictured here with a JDI delegation meeting with Congressman Niki Tsongas

16 Days of Activism 2012

Starting on Sunday, November 25th, JDI will  participate in an international effort entitled:  16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence Campaign.  Each day, we will post information and invite your comments about the roles we can play – collectively and individually – to create a world where everyone lives in safety and enjoys healthy, positive and loving relationships and communities.

JDI holds a core belief that domestic and sexual violence are human rights violations. This philosophy and our analysis help explain that adults and  youth – regardless of gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, race, age, physical ability or other attribute – experience sexual and domestic violence as  a very personal violation by perpetrators who use violence, threats and other tactics to gain and keep power and control. As an example, up to 70% of women worldwide will experience gender-based violence in their lifetime.   This reality has an impact on all of us at multiple levels.  Our communities and our collective well being are also affected by that abuse. 

Participating in the 16 Days of Violence Campaign reaffirms our commitment to a global human rights agenda that recognizes the only way to prevent domestic and sexual violence is to acknowledgeand address the multiple and intersecting oppressions that undermine an individual’s human rights and dignity.

So get ready and follow us throughout the 16 Days campaign and add your voice to those of all victims and survivors around the world who refuse to be silent. Share your stories and information, post your thoughts, and raise questions. For more information, visit http://16dayscwgl.rutgers.edu/.

In peace,

Mary R. Lauby
Executive Director

 


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